Lingerie

Buying lingerie can be a tricky act. It can be embarrassing, confusing, and awkward when you do not know what you are looking for or even what different options are out there. But you do not have to be timid when it comes to finding something that will make you feel great and look good to your partner too!

Get Rid of Negative Thoughts

The first step when shopping for sexy lingerie is to forget about the bad thoughts you have about whether or not lingerie will look good on you, if your partner will like it, or what you are doing in that part of the lingerie section of the store in the first place. Just relax. Sexy lingerie, like regular lingerie, comes in many different sizes, styles, designs, and fabrics to make you look your best, including hiding your flaws and accentuating your assets. You just have to find the right kind of sexy lingerie for your expectations.

Your Look

When searching for the right sexy lingerie outfit, it is benefiting to go for a complete ‘look.’ Wearing a lingerie outfit all in the same color not only sets the mood but can make you appear slimmer as well. Features such as shoes, hosiery, make up, and hairstyle can also add to your expression – a red leather bustier with matching shoes, fiery lipstick, and wild hair will be sure to get your honey hot, while a silky light-blue chemise and angel face will make him float into the clouds.

Color Coordinated

Speaking of colors, there are certain ones that look better with certain hair colors when it comes to lingerie or any other type of clothing. Black, red, white, and off-white look good on just about anyone with or without hair. Blondes should lean towards more pastel colors when choosing lingerie, while brunettes can go for bolder colors such as purple or emerald green. Red-heads look great in greens, blues, and earthy tones like a light brown or tan.

Choosing a Style

Depending on your level of ease with lingerie, there are many different styles and designs you can choose from that will make you feel confident and attractive. Some of the popular sexy lingerie items include:

Negligee – A loose, sheer gown that usually comes with a matching robe.
Babydoll – A shorter gown that fits around the bust and flares towards the hemline; sometimes comes with a choice of bottoms such as briefs or a thong.
Bustier – A strapless, elongated bra that gives extra lift to the breasts and a smooth shape to the upper body.
Teddy – A one-piece style, similar to a bodysuit, but usually fashioned in a more decorative manner.
Thong – A type of lingerie that provides coverage in the front of the panty with a thing strap in the back.

Material

The fabric or material of your lingerie can also add a certain kind of attitude to your outfit. Silk and chiffon are both smooth and shiny, while Lycra and spandex are tight-fitting and stretchy. Sheer material can express a certain demeanor, while leather has its own dialogue. The type of fabric or material you decide upon will only speak if you choose to let it. Find your own way of expressing how you feel with the lingerie and don’t be afraid to hide your conservative side for the night.

By Monica Drusch