Let’s face it; a woman’s memory is more acute than a man’s, especially when it comes to romantics and affection during a honeymoon. Sometimes men just don’t understand that fact. They don’t understand how to treat a woman with respect and dignity during a honeymoon. A honeymoon is supposed to full of love, passion, affection, romance and friendliness. These are the things a man should focus on when taking his wife on a honeymoon. I guarantee you she will remember the honeymoon as a wonderful, epic period as you begin your lives together.
First, let’s talk about places to go. You want to be able to go somewhere that’s romantic yet private. Many times seclusion is the key to a successful honeymoon. Neither you nor your wife will become distracted with the “bits and pieces” of everyday life. You get to devote 100 percent of your time to each other and truly get to know one another. However, you probably want to go someplace fun too. You can choose any number of locations across the world that will offer you a fun-filled honeymoon and the privacy you’re looking for.
Now comes the time to make an absolute decision on where you want to go. Probably the best thing to do is find out what your wife likes to do (you should already know this by now anyway). Know her interests and even her dream vacation. One woman may like the outdoors so taking a camping trip could be the best honeymoon. Another woman may prefer the beach and sunshine so taking a honeymoon in California, Florida, Hawaii or Cancun could be the best. Just know what kind of honeymoon is going to really impress your wife. You want to make her feel like a “diamond in the sky.” Remember, a honeymoon is not so much about what you want, but what your wife wants—so take her someplace she would enjoy.
While you are actually on your honeymoon, devote your time to your wife. Don’t be consumed with watching sports (unless your wife’s into sports), thinking about work and looking at other women (you should never do this). Focus on your wife and her feelings. She will come to appreciate you more, and she will know you truly care about her. This helps her better remember the honeymoon and in most cases, puts her in the “right mood.”
Let’s briefly mention sex on your honeymoon. A man’s natural instinct is to gratify himself and that’s the end. Well, that’s not the end. You should be more concerned about making your wife feel comfortable enough to enjoy the sex. Put off the natural man’s instinct. Don’t push the limits with your wife. Do things your wife approves of. If she doesn’t like something, don’t do it. If she likes something you do, continue to do that, but things don’t have to be monotonous. You can change things up when making love, just do it in a way your wife approves of. Make sex a memorable experience for her, and in the process it actually becomes a memorable, satisfying honeymoon experience for you too.
By John Ivie